During the ‘times’ of check

 Yeah. It is great. And everyone of us has gone through this. At least once or multiple times or still continuing on the same. We have our ups and downs, good and bad, worst sometimes and joy and wins. However the time of ‘check’ or the time of ‘testing us’ is one of the best times we ever had. This we will release after sometime anyway. What are the things that we should be taking care when we are tested by , checked by ?

           1. The first and foremost thing is let the time pass by. Because there could be situations where we cannot have any control over it. Not even one percent chance. In those situations, if nothing works, Let the time pass by. Just watch the times. It will flow like air. A beautiful air. In this stage we are doing nothing but letting the time to pass by…

            2. If we are in middle of something, we are getting checked, then let them check. Just continue the hard work, dedication and all the plans we have. Keep on moving irrespective of all the tests people do. Perseverance is the Key here.

 

 

                  3. Now, if the check is sudden or we don’t even thought of it coming, listen to the intuition and act accordingly. Take the help from nature. It could be suggestion or help from some people. It could be a YouTube video or a good book. But we should act upon it and make sure we are dealing in accordance with our intuition.

                  4. Sometimes there are people who checks us or tests us repeatedly even we are doing everything required. Just ignore them and nothing more to prove to them.

                  5. One more important consideration is, stop the pickle thoughts, unnecessary overthinking and self doubt. Be faithful and hopeful and move on.

 

"Love people, but never take them to heart"

 May be I'm speaking it harsh but the point is we cannot trust everyone and take everything in to heart. If we go that way, I'm sure we will drop ourselves into trouble or get hurt. It does not mean that we should give no importance to people and neglect them. Life is full of people around us. Starting from family people to people in work places, people around us and so on.. We have to have good communication or we should be trying to communicate well with the people. But during the process, there can be many difference of opinions, or get agreed on the same page or sometimes may lead to quarrel or any other outcome. However the point to remember is , we should not take everything to the heart. Particularly, the words or actions of others that Hurt or Pain us. It also does not mean that we should be acting like a Stone. We should be having good emotions and the joy that keeps us cherishing. We should be practicing that balancing consciousness.
                             "Now..., I'm sure many times we believe or trust on some person while doing something or talking on something. And that person may acted against us which results us to get Hurt or some emotional stuff. We may also feel cheated in worst cases or not cared. To avoid this fuss in the thoughts, the best way is to not to give that importance to them in our thoughts. We Love them, we will share many things and activities with them. But we should not be taking most of the things to our heart. It is not also acting or cheating them. It is just staying with a layer of disconnect even we are in strong bond."

 Generally this approach requires much understanding and deep care for people and also good level of maturity to not to get self hurt when things are reversed. Gratitude, Compassion, Clear understanding of the situation and also the past behavior or approach of that persons may give us some leads. Also thoughts of forgiveness and an attitude of 'move' will makes us to not go in to the hurting trap much.

Article : Written in March,23

 

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Review on "What I know For Sure" by Oprah Winfrey