"Love people, but never take them to heart"

 May be I'm speaking it harsh but the point is we cannot trust everyone and take everything in to heart. If we go that way, I'm sure we will drop ourselves into trouble or get hurt. It does not mean that we should give no importance to people and neglect them. Life is full of people around us. Starting from family people to people in work places, people around us and so on.. We have to have good communication or we should be trying to communicate well with the people. But during the process, there can be many difference of opinions, or get agreed on the same page or sometimes may lead to quarrel or any other outcome. However the point to remember is , we should not take everything to the heart. Particularly, the words or actions of others that Hurt or Pain us. It also does not mean that we should be acting like a Stone. We should be having good emotions and the joy that keeps us cherishing. We should be practicing that balancing consciousness.
                             "Now..., I'm sure many times we believe or trust on some person while doing something or talking on something. And that person may acted against us which results us to get Hurt or some emotional stuff. We may also feel cheated in worst cases or not cared. To avoid this fuss in the thoughts, the best way is to not to give that importance to them in our thoughts. We Love them, we will share many things and activities with them. But we should not be taking most of the things to our heart. It is not also acting or cheating them. It is just staying with a layer of disconnect even we are in strong bond."

 Generally this approach requires much understanding and deep care for people and also good level of maturity to not to get self hurt when things are reversed. Gratitude, Compassion, Clear understanding of the situation and also the past behavior or approach of that persons may give us some leads. Also thoughts of forgiveness and an attitude of 'move' will makes us to not go in to the hurting trap much.